Puppies
not good Christmas gifts
Holidays worst time to introduce new pet into family"JUST
IN TIME FOR THE HOLIDAYS! ADORABLE PUPPIES, WILL HOLD TILL CHRISTMAS!"
Advertisements like this are all too common during the weeks prior
to Christmas. However, the Humane Society of the United States,
veterinarians, canine behavior experts and obedience training instructors
all agree that live puppies should not be given as Christmas gifts.
Many reputable breeders will refuse to sell puppies during the holiday
season.
So why is giving a puppy as a Christmas gift so deeply imbedded
into the American psyche? It could be from the seasonal advertisements
on television and in catalogs, like the one published by L.L. Bean
for the 2001 holiday season, which bombard us during the weeks prior
to Christmas. Numerous ads show scenes of the ideal Christmas morning
with precious puppies, wide-eyed and adorned with colorful Christmas
bows. What could possibly be wrong with this picture?
Nothing. As advertisement, it does what it is meant to do. It creates
an image that helps sell products. The problem occurs when people
try to duplicate what they have seen on TV and in catalogs with
a real puppy on Christmas Day.
So with all the warm fuzzy feelings associated with puppies, why
is it such a bad idea to surprise someone with a cute puppy on Christmas
morning? First, a potential pet owner should realize that puppies
enter a "behavioral imprint period" between the ages of
7 to 12 weeks of age. During this time, a dog learns a majority
of its behavior and develops its own personality. This is also when
a puppy is developmentally best capable of leaving its litter and
beginning to form bonds with a human family. Canine behavioral counselors
and veterinarians agree that this is the right time to send a puppy
home with its adoptive family. It is extremely important, however,
that a puppy goes to a home environment that will not stress or
unduly frighten it during this stage of development. Christmas morning,
with its loud noises, flashing lights, ringing phones, visiting
company and other types of excitement, is absolutely the worst time
to introduce a newly weaned pup to its new human family.
The next problem with giving a pet for the holidays is that it could
also send the message to a child that a puppy, like toys, is disposable
once the newness wears off. Think of what happens to some toys and
other gifts that are given to a child on Christmas. Within a few
months, most of them have been forgotten, broken or traded. A puppy
should not be thought of in the same category as a Christmas toy.
Children need to be taught that a puppy, or any other animal, that
is being adopted into the family will have needs of its own and
require ongoing care. The puppy's care will demand commitment from
all family members.
Finally, and most tragically, according to statistics kept by the
HSUS, the majority of puppies born in the United States never reach
their second birthdays, even though most breed's natural lifespan
should be at least 13 years. Many of these dogs that run away from
home or are dumped by their owners end up being hit by cars, starving
or being fatally injured in fights with other animals. Other "unmanageable"
pups are taken to shelters, pounds or vets where they are "put
to sleep." The majority of these unnecessary canine deaths
is squarely the responsibility of owners who did not understand
what it would involve to properly train and socializes their puppy,
or who did understand, but did not do the necessary work. All this
because someone wanted their Christmas morning to look like a scene
out of a Norman Rockwell painting.
If you are absolutely set upon getting your family a puppy for Christmas,
consider these alternatives. Purchase a leash, a collar, and a good
book on raising a puppy. You can buy a gift certificate for a veterinary
checkup and for puppy socialization classes. Wrap all these up individually
and place them under the tree. As they are opened one by one, the
family's excitement and anticipation will grow. Before long, they
will gradually understand what this present is! Then, after the
Christmas tree is taken down and the rush of the holiday season
is over, together the family can enjoy the anticipation and excitement
of discussing and selecting the right pup. This will help increase
the family's mutual commitment to the newest family member.
While no harm is done if a Christmas toy is put up and forgotten,
a pet should not be discarded so easily. All pets should be given
every opportunity to live long and wonderful lives in "forever
homes." So before you go and buy that puppy for Christmas,
carefully consider if you and your family are willing to give the
time and lifetime care that your new pet deserves.
Eamon Riley is a certified master dog trainer and canine behavior
counselor. For comments and suggestion, he can be reached at (940)
636-5777 or (940) 689-WAGS.
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